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Backstabbers...Who?

Things are diverse when I started having a career here in the country, what I mean is that people don’t gossip a lot. We frequently talk about how we could do our job better, how to achieve the goal; basically it’s all about the job we can do to make our work place enhanced. We seldom converse about people that surround us. Way back when I was working in the Philippines. People talk about people. Backstabbing each other. Jealousy exists! I guess we didn’t have that much life that gossiping was the best thing to do. What a life!

Some people that I knew in the Philippines can never be happy of what you become. Crab mentality maybe or call it Jealousy…I was chatting with someone last night, she told me that she met my so called college close friends, so I asked her if they extend any messages for me? I was expecting they would say “Hello” or “How’s Gage?” and all of the sudden she said “Look! Jewel has all good things; she has all the good impression I ever heard, She has everything and everything about you is the opposite”…What?! So is the opposite means that I am living in a run down apartment with an abusive husband? Ay wawa naman ako, or baka homeless ako dito what else? I look so pitiful because my husband cannot afford to buy me things and I am probably working on a minimum wage and no nanny to take care of Gage while I’m working..There is nothing wrong of being homeless, looking desperate and working for a minimum wage as long as hindi gossip and it’s true.. Jewel is my best friend and we are two different human being. I’m in Vegas and she is in CA, we have different life. Yes, we are very close but we don’t like the same things. We have different profession and there is no comparison between us. I think this gossip begins because when I started working here and never had my papers yet, I opted to work as a cashier. I have to learn their ways here before I’ll get a real job I whined about it to my friend in the Philippines and all of a sudden I heard about this how terrible my life  here in the States. I’m telling you my friends there in the Philippines that if you arrived in a foreign country, you cannot just get a good job right away. You have to process your papers, get a drivers license and learn about their culture here. And you know what? I never was ashamed when I working as a cashier because it’s a decent job… I don’t really care what you guys say about me. As long as I know what is the truth.

 

At least I am making difference in kid’s life everyday. Seeing them learned from me is one of my mission in life…How about you? What do you do to make this world better? Get a life and just be happy of what you have then you’ll be satisfied. Envious people cannot be contented. Jewel and I actually just giggled about it and we pity you…we hope someday you can find your own happiness too; A man that will spoil you because that’s what you want and need. You’re jealous because you have a lot of wants and needs and you didn’t have it yet….Maybe you'll have your day someday..wish for it!

 

Almost Done!!!

Finally! The moment has come to an end…The end of the soreness..The end of not taking food every time the wire will be changed…The end of my 30 minutes session every night just to make sure it is clean..Now it is time to celebrate! My Ortho just told me that my braces would come off in 3 weeks!!! Can you believe that? I’m telling you in 3 weeks…Am I pleased about it? Yes! I am…..For 2 and ½ years this braces encompass a part of me but can’t wait to see myself smiling without it.

Since I arrived here in the states, I did so much work with my teeth. I went to the dentist in the Phils. But man, when they check you here, it seems that you never went to a dental clinic in your whole life. I’m not kidding you…They did so much work in my teeth that the pain didn’t worried me anymore.

 

When I was a kid, they always taunt me of being a rabbit. A rabbit?! Yup, because of my ugly looking teeth. And that’s why I wanted to have a false teeth way back then. Although I love to smile but I always dreamed of a perfect one. Then when I arrived here and started all these work done to acquire this little dream of mine, the perfect smile. One day I told my husband that I wore these cheap braces in the Phils. that my teeth move a lot and it only lasted for 2 months, I cannot stand it at all..Then the week after that my lovey dovey husband made an appointment to have my braces done. He’s that quickJ At first I was complaining because I could buy a property in the Philippines for the price of my braces but it’s worth it I guess. Yes it is…

Although I am not done yet since I still need implants done in the bottom of my teeth yet I am so happy that I finally I’ll be off from the pain of my braces. I still have to contact an Oral Surgeon so I can start preparing myself for that implant surgery. Shoot! If I could just save all the money instead of spending it on this too much work teeth of mine..If this insurance of mine will just cover this work done but they won’t since they considered it as a cosmetic surgery…

Found this close up picture of me way then camping at Oregon 5 years ago, without my braces..

And this is me now, taken yesterday, and 3 more weeks to go....

 

I'm just happy that finally I am almost done!!!

 

Just a ThinG

The purse that made me had sleepless nights thinking if I should get it or not..Yes or No were only my options but I am in love with this little material thing....What a bummer! It's just a LV purse, but is it reasonable to spend over $2000 for just a  handbag, maybe if that thing will keep you awake for nights...

My idol Sarah Michelle carrying her LV Manhattan GM

Will post more pics of my darling LV soon...

What Gage Loves

My little man is so in love with these creatures:

Gage said "Pig" and "oink2"

Gage said"Cow" and "mooo"

Gage said "Donkeys"
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And I love these...

Happy Friday!

It’s so hilarious working with bigger kids. They always speak what’s in their mind. I didn't set my hair today because I don’t have the time and guess what they said? “Mrs. Needham, your hair is so ugly today, are you having a bad hair day?” Funny……I never really thought that working with normal intermediate kids made me giggle esp. the girls. They constantly make comments on my looks and everything. The girls talk about boys and fashion all the time. One of the 5^th grader ask me one time if what kind of jeans she needed to wear that will look good on her and I told her “skinny jeans” and this little girl wear skinny jeans almost everyday. They seek for your advices, converse about their everyday life. When I was that age, I never remember me talking about boys and cloths. Maybe we are indeed in a different era now .

I met my husband today for lunch as well. I feel so bad he is so sick. We can only spend an hour because I have to go back to work. I was bugging him to buy me a Coach Carly today and he agrees. I wish I can get it at the outlet mall so it would be cheaper but the coach store don’t have a Carly there but Macys have…..I am so happy!

And it is Friday today and last day of the Nevada Reading Week. The kids won the principal’s challenge. Yehey! I have been progress monitoring the kids this morning. So far they are improving so I am glad. If these kids can read with their level then it means they are really for middle school but if not then too bad:(

Anyway guys, Have a good week-end!

Our little man...

Wow Wow and Wow! Gage will turn 20 months old next week! I am so happy that my boy curved out to be really funny and always eager to learn new things. He always makes us laugh all the time.  I am so languid to enumerate all the wonderful things he does but one thing I am really proud of him is that he still loves books. I made this little library for him and collected books since I was pregnant. Now he knows most of the title of his books, knows most of the animals and their sounds and some of the words in his book when we were reading. He can pinpoint the things during reading time to demonstrate what we are talking about. I ordered this Hooked on Phonics set, I thought at first it was not worth the value but you know what it turned out that it is a very good program. The program guides you so I am happy with it. If we are not available then Gage will just sit down and read alone. My heart melts every time I hear him reading by himself, trying to make sounds. Gosh, I am just so proud of my little boy. I always believe that a good reader is created and activated. We started reading with Gage when he was 3 months old and I am so happy that our hard work is very productive.

And also Gage is very friendly. Every time we are out, he constantly smile to everybody, wave and say “hello” and “bye”. He’s just like me; He loves being around with people. I hope his personality won’t change….

And his favorite word is “Daddy”…I guess he’s a daddy’s boy. He adores his Dad. He mimics everything he does. Funny faces to exercise…He loves his big sister as well…

I really thank God for giving me such a wonderful family. I never was a good girl when I was single but God always see to it that you get the best in life…

The unorganized me!

This week has been pretty frantic for me. I was processing my application for Naturalization here in this country early this week. Actually, it was my first time meting out my paper works by myself. My husband did everything in all the years that I am here, all I need to do is sign the papers. But no spoon feeding no more:), Now it is my turn…Anyway, as I was getting done, I brought all my documents in school so I can make a hard copy of it but I don’t know what happened that when I was done photocopying the papers and went back to class, I realized that some of the photocopies were missing. I was so scared to death. Maybe I just didn’t reproduce it all but maybe I did. I didn’t know…..A part of me is saying I did but there’s part of me screaming that I didn’t. I wish I didn’t. That day the unorganized part of me attacks once again……I still finished the packet and submitted it yesterday. BUT why is it that so important to us/me? It’s just a mere piece of photocopy paper, Yes it is. In this country, Identity Thief is our huge problem. Millions of Americans has been victimized by this epidemic. Thieves can get an enormous loans using someone’s identity, they can buy a house, cars, expensive things ect. Once you identity is stolen then it will take forever to recover. My husband’s always telling me to shred everything, to be very careful but after what happened this week then I always imagine a lot of “Maybes”….

Anyway guys, Have a good week-end! 

Inexpensive places in Vegas

Mga Mommy, if you guys are planning to make a quick trip here in Vegas, here some some inexpensive places you can go:



The Secret Garden of Siegfried & Roy & Dolphin Habitat/The Mirage
(702) 791-7111

The Royal White Tigers, Tibetan white lions, bottle-nosed dolphins are featured at this one of a kind family place. It's a must see for the shows, aquarium, and exotic animals.Tickets run $10.00 for both attractions. Children under 10 are free. The Siegfried and Roy show is not open on Wednesdays..but the Dolphin Habitat is open. Make sure to check out the Mirage's volcano and expansive shopping plaza while you are there!!

M&M's World & Ethel M Chocolates
(702) 597-3122

Dieters beware! This 32,000 square-foot dream is filled with chocolate from head to toe. This is a sure fire hit for children of all ages. Enjoy the tour and pick up a treat upon your exit. It's location is convenient...near the MGM Grand Hotel. It's open everyday and there is not admission fee.

New York-New York Hotel/Amusement Arcade
(702) 740-6969

This incredible New York City replica is a sight to see by itself. Check out the Statue of Liberty and take a ride on the Manhattan Express, an exciting roller coaster that twists, loops and dives around the resort's perimeter. Please be aware that this rollercoaster has some turns that are similar to the force felt by pilots---younger children should not ride the rollercoaster. The arcade is filled with games for all. Prices are per ride.

The Sahara Speedworld
(702) 737-2111

Anyone want to take a spin? Virtual reality three-quarter scale Indy style car racing is what you will find at the Sahara. With over 25 interactive rides, two 24 seat 3D theaters, and numerous games...there is something for everyone. Prices range from $5.00 to $9.00 per ride.

Sam's Town's Sunset Stampede
(702)456-7777

An eye-catching laser, light, and water show awaits you at the Stampede. It's a 25,000 square-foot indoor park..complete with falls and water. Shows are daily at 2p.m., 6p.m., 8p.m. and 10p.m. There is no admission charge.

Stratosphere
(702) 380-7777

Thrilling rides, freefall jumps, roller coasters....these and more await you at the United State's tallest observation tower. It contains two of the world's highest and quickest rollercoasters. Don't eat lunch before checking this must see place out. Rides vary in price from $5.00 and up.

Wildlife Walk/Tropicana
(702) 739-2222

A bird and wildlife habitat for you to explore. Take a walk through a paradise of exotic cockatoos, toucans and marmosets. Located in the walkway, between the Tropicana towers. There is no admission for this beautiful sight. It is perfect for a 1 hour quick getaway.

Circus, Circus/Grand Slam Canyon Theme Park
(702) 794-3939

Recreating the prehistoric ages, southwestern style, happens when you step into the Grand Slam Canyon Theme park. Stop by the Big Top for a clown adventure or take a ride of the corkscrew rollercoaster. There are so many thrilling attractions for children here. Spend the day riding the water flume, bumper cars, and swinging ship. Children can also hit the Fossil Dig, complete with ancient replicas of fossils and rock. Admission to the park is free. Ride tickets can be purchased separately or as an all day pass.

Excalibur Hotel
(702) 597-7777

Come back to the days of King Arthur at the Excalibur arcade. Try your skills are the games, shop for a few hours or check out the Magic Motion Machine. The Magic Motion is a simulation ride that takes your through the Swiss Alps on a runaway train. Camelot is yours at the Wizard's Arcade or at the Medivial Village. There is no admission fee.

MGM Grand Hotel/MGM Youth Center
(702) 891-7979

The MGM Grand Hotel has one of the most renowned child care facilities in the country. It is not difficult to find things to do as a family at this property. Things such as a 12,000 square-foot arcade, rides, shows, specialty areas, Wizard of Oz area, attractions and theme park styled eateries are all part of Nevada's first official theme park. This park should be put on the TOP of your list of things to do with the kids. One day passes run from $10.00 and up per person.

Caesars Magical Empire
(702) 731-7333

This 66,000-square-foot magical world featuring dining and illusions in located in the Caesars Palace. Although Caesars doesn't have much to offer the young children, you may want to check out The World of Caesar. This rotunda resembles an ancient Roman temple. A people mover will whisk you away to replicas of the Coliseum, Forum, and Palatine Hill. Another feature that should be seen is at the Omnimax Theater , complete with reclining seating. The Omnimax shows action travel films. Admission for the Omnimax runs from $5.00 to $9.00 per person.

Wet & Wild Waterpark
(702) 734-0088

Looking for something different to do with the family? How about a day of good old fashioned water fun! Grab an innertube and float along the Lazy River. Those who are more adventurous can check out some of the high speed flume rides, such as Bomb Bay or Hydra Mania. The waterpark does have a children's play area and wave pool, also. Admission runs from $12.00 and up per person. Children under 10 are free with paying adults.

Red Rock Canyon
(702) 363-1921

Just an hour away from those flashing Las Vegas lights, you will find a slice of natural heaven. Your family will enjoy tortoises, lizards, and wildlife galore. As the sun sets, you will see the cliffs and mountain ranges turn various hues of red and orange. Simply beautiful!!

Hoover Dam

Located less than an hour from Las Vegas, you will find the Hoover Dam. This dam was built, over 60 years ago, during our countries Depression . Hoover Dam is a National Historical Landmark and is rated by the American Society of Civil Engineers as one of the America's Seven Modern Civil Engineering Wonders. The dam is open 364 days a year (except for Christmas). Admission is $8.00 for adults and $2.00 for children.

Grand Canyon

This is America--and it's only 2 hours from Las Vegas!! As you step onto the north or south rim of the Grand Canyon, you understand what is is to be a proud American. In one simple word, the Grand Canyon is spectacular!! The millions of acres of the canyon was carved by the Colorado River. The Grand Canyon is best seen from the south rim. The warmer months are the best times to visit the canyon, as is get pretty icy and chilly in the fall and winter months. Gazing at the Canyon's beauty is only one of the many activities. You can choose from mule rides, hiking, biking and much more. Admission is $20.00 per private vehicle, activities are extra.

LIED DISCOVERY CHILDREN'S MUSEUM
833 Las Vegas Blvd. North
Las Vegas, NV 89101
(702) 382-KIDS (5437)

Kids will love touching the museums 100 hands-on exhibits. They have age specific areas. Toddler Towers is for visitors under 5, 6-12 year olds can explore the Mechanical Forces Pavilion and over 12 can perform their own radio show.

Admission: $5.00 Adults $4.00 Seniors, Military & Students age 12-17 $3.00 Children ages 3-11 (Free for childen age 2 and under)

Hours: Tuesdays-Fridays open 10:00am-5:00pm
                                  Saturdays open noon-5:00pm
Closed on Mondays

I have been thinking.....

I have been thinking a lot of things lately, maybe because it's 2008 or it's just maybe I have to change a little bit of some things in my life....

I have been thinking maybe it's time for me to drive in freeways. I have been driving for 4 years now and I am still a coward of it, as Shyne keeps on reminding me on how passive driver I am, afterall, I only got 1 speeding ticket for 4 years..Isn't it great?

I have been thinking If I will go ahead and have 1 more baby. I want Gage to have a playmate but I don't think so. I don't think a have enough energy or love for another one. Besides private schools here cost 15 to 20T a year. It's very expensive..........

I have been thinking about money. Money really is the root of all evil. Of course, I love money but I don't deceive people. I have been wondering why people lied or hide something from you. Is it because of poverty in that other side of that world? I came from that world and I understand what's going on there but If I'm there and someone's helping me here, I will probably try my best to manage everything and not to lose the trust of that person. You know it's hard for me to forgive even the Bible says to learn how to forgive but I will try to forgive the people that did what they did to me..If not for Ate Liz, I'm probably done and forget everything there by now.....

To be continued...

a filipino kid....

It was the first day of a filipino student in my reading intervention. He is from Surigao. I surely miss the Philippines while talking to this boy and oh man, that accent? I miss it so badly. I hardly talk to filipino kids here that speaks my language. Voyager is a small reading group so everybody noticed his accent and the other kids thinks it's funny and of course I defended him but seriously I really like talking to this boy, It made me feel like I am in the Philippines. I sure was like him when I was in 3rd Grade too or even maybe after college, working in the school district helps me a lot actually..Well, his regular teacher and I will work together on how to help him, basically from the beginning sounds and vowels because he is unaware of the long vowels sound, as far as I can remember we only use the short vowels there...So that means he will be in my reading class more often...I can't wait to see this boy everyday......

That's my day, today!